The smacking on the rear threw her off because its a alpha behavior. She used to you being completely beta in behavior. You might have been making some food pogrss by getting other women's attention infront of her, smacking her rear, and being hapog despite the situation.
But you backslid on tbe alpha behavior by ASKING?? her if you can hold her? Real men don't ask they just do it. You probably expect us to tell you its not manly to hols her all night, but actuall its not what you do but how you do it!! Don't sk for her premission...that's a turn off for women. Take charge!! Or don't do it at all. No middle ground. You are not her gay friend, you are a strong man who doesn't worry about what women or otber men think of you.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
