Thanks job. I visit them every Friday but missed last week because I went to d19's game out of town. Fil has Alzheimer's so I want to make sure I am there for them.

H heard his mom tell me " you come whenever you want" so he knows how she feels. She has said things to him in the past.

He told me he thought he was going to file in January. We'll see how that goes. I know he's upset living at his parents for 1 1/2 years now and he feels displaced. I told him that's not my fault. I was thinking of telling him I may be willing to move out a couple of months and let him stay with the kids a while. Maybe that can help him see what he's missing. I haven't decided. He has also been unhappy so I thought that may help. He says I'm selfish so that would show that I'm not. He says since I wouldn't move out I always have to have my way and I'm selfish.

Anyone have any thoughts?

I guess I had better get back outside with d. I brought her to a concert. She's really excited so I'm glad I did this for her. I just hope she doesn't forget I did this for her tomorrow. Haha

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out