TTD180, sorry the mediation didn't go as well as planned, but one thing is that the DB principles had lead you to doing something about that sitch. That is the positive, you stood up for yourself.
With regards to the cards, that is a tough one. I probably would think that if they don't know, then they probably don't need to know. Either sign it from you and your son, or your surname only (ie: The Smiths).
Thermals? I hate the cold weather, nearly hitting the 40's here. Santa turns up in a pair of board shorts, or if you are lucky (or unlucky) a pair of budgie smugglers. Don't know what they are? Check out urban dictionary.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.