Ditto, well done on not sending a message. It is so hard to make that choice, but once you have decided, it is then a big boost to you.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.