W saw it and grilled me about why I bought another one. "I hope you're not giving that to me." "Who are you buying that for?" "You are do secretive lately." I bought a book as well and got "What are you buying, another book on marriage or something? Don't you have enough to read?" Literally mocking me with a smarta$$ smile on her face. DBing took over instead of anger. I just told her who I was buying the movie for and told her that I liked reading and trying to get better at life.
Don't let that get to you. I got a LOT of the same from mine. I read a lot then, and I still do now. I remember thinking at the time, "what? I'm not supposed to want to work on my marriage? That seems silly." It's her thing to deal with.
I agree. Let her do her, and you do you. If going back to work helps, then I hope that comes sooner than later.
These are her issues to deal with. You can't help. You can however have a good time with the kids and with yourself on your time off. Enjoy the time. Regardless of what she does you'll always have you and for a very long time, the kids. Be present to the exclusion of her so you don't miss the good times
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
