Labug- no violence. He went through a period many years ago when he was punching holes in walls but that stopped. Maybe he has just been internalizing his emotions and it is all exploding now. I am more afraid if his anger. It will make him mad because he thinks he doesn't have a problem. I have had a few days of relative calm by not engaging and walking away and I wantv to hold onto that for now.
It is not unusual for me to work late Mon and Wed night. I used to share my schedule with him but he doesn't ask anymore. I will just not go home and let him assume I am working. I will call before the 8 o'clock meetings to say good night to Sm
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
