Fireproof is an excellent movie and it does give the viewer something to think about.
As for your w, leave her be. She wants to play hide and seek and be Ms. Princess...so be it. Spend the day doing things that you feel you need to do and also spend time w/your sons.
She'll find out soon enough that life doesn't revolve around her.
Continue to as you have been.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
