WR,
You are so right...your sons are the priority now. Of course, if your h gets desperate and needs boot, he can use the garbage bags for boots! LOL! They work well in case of an emergency and besides...he can purchase some new ties and boots w/the money he hasn't paid you for child support and your missing insurance check.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.