Yes, I have an IC. Seeing her weekly-helps so much. Not completely in line with DB, but I take things with grain of salt. And, I cried before the Thanksgiving meal to myself in the bathroom, prayed, pulled myself together and had a nice meal
Juliegayle,
The idea for defusing the arguments is great. I like how you acknowledge the feelings, but don't take responsibility for them. So hard to do!! This takes so much strenth!
Loualea,
I will keep reviewing the 37 steps, too. It's so great to have this forum!
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
