Thanksgiving was 'ok'. It was nice to uphold one of our traditions together. The tough part came after the meal. MIL wanted to know when we were available for our traditional Christmas tree harvest at the tree farm. Every year, sleigh ride, santa, cut our tree down etc. The problem is: The kids and I moved out and live with my parents. Now that we've moved out, my husband is not wild about us moving back. He always says: "I'd love for the kids to move back" deliberately leaving me out.
My D15 is so upset by all of the chaos and wants answers. She really grilled H last night. Vented a lot of tears and anger wanting to know how we can end all of this and be a family again. It is UNREAL how insensitive our spouses can be during this time. He seemed relatively unmoved by her tears. Like he didn't care! I don't even want to move back home when he still has this high level of anger. Does this get better? How long do they hold on to their anger. Last night he told me that he wanted a divorce 6 months ago when I got the bomb, but I wouldn't let him...??? WHAT??
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
