Got through it, with grace I think. You're all correct, My thoughts are everywhere. I'm In apanic and have to find my center. I want to save this marriage. I will change and hope that he can too. But at the same time, I have got to prepare to divorce. I can't ignore it. We had put some money aside for my daughters college. Not a lot, but enough that supplementing it would be easier. She is not his and now he said the money is gone . She isn't Eligible for financial aid because of our combined incomes. So, I have to pay cash myself . And I will do it, but it's difficult for me to take that On unexpectedly and at the same time become independent.
I'm frustrated. We have been cordial, he tells me he will help with this semester. But I can't take it. That's the opposite of what I need to do.
