Thank you very much for your response on gifting. It really does make sense to me now. I'm now thinking about doing something meaningful, something that she has brought up in the past that only her and I would know about. But i'm also thinking about giving her the gift from my daughter? Would this be a good idea?.
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Men raised by their moms to be chivalrous, a gentleman etc. We are told that one day we must put our wife on a pedestal. But if you observe men who get all the women you will see they have a completely different approach.
Women look for a strong man who can stand up to them. Much of their little fits are meant to test you for the response. It is a subconcious mechanism women have that is dsigned to weed out the boys from the men.
Most of us men start off passing all the tests. We are young and arrogant and confident. We don't care what women think at that point. We land a nice woman nd get married and is all down hill from then. Her fitness tests increase in quantity and difficulty as the marriagr progresses and you give more and more power to her. Shes on a pedestal, queen of the house. And then you dont hold her interest anymore. You become to easy. And the attraction starts to fade.
Wow. "You beomce to easy". She has said this to me. Her view of me is starting to add up.