1. My s. He was out of bed every few minutes till way past midnight. Of course this is typical on an exciting day but what got me was H disregard of the situation. The room he sleeps in is right across the hall. I know he was awake because I could hear his phone beeping over and over with incoming texts. He made no effort to help even when s was crying "I miss my Daddy"
This is not coparenting. He only takes responsibility for S when I am not there and then I worry that he is not attentive. (Hanging out in basement and leaving S alone). I can't see talking to him about it. It took a week to get him to sit down to talk about who will be with S all the days of winter break. I got 2 min of his time and in the end I still only have a vague "I will see what I can do. " btw.. This is new he used to be a very attentive father.
2. Getting very nervous about going to Alanon wed night. Particularly what to say when H asks me where I am going and he probably will if it interferes with his own desire to go out. There are no other options as I am already borrowing money to cover all the times I will need babysitter in Dec and no friends or family close to watch S.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
