Hi Portia- it's really hard having them run far and fast and completely ignore our existence and reality while they are 'living it up' with OP. My H did the same.. Left to another part of country then finally left the country. I relate to what you say about the trust issue and how it's so much to recover from
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home