Hi Portia- it's really hard having them run far and fast and completely ignore our existence and reality while they are 'living it up' with OP. My H did the same.. Left to another part of country then finally left the country. I relate to what you say about the trust issue and how it's so much to recover from


TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home