You can keep doing what you have been doing, which is tormenting yourself over things that you have no control over, or you can start doing what you could have been doing all of this time. Learn to practice detachment, and take yourself off of this emotional roller coaster you have been on. Choose to stop worrying about every single thing your husband says and does, and what it could possibly mean. Stop throwing yourself in the way of your husband's self-destructive behavior, and let him make the mistakes and deal with the consequences.
Ain't that the truth. You would think after have done this once ready i should know this like the back of my hand. But no...I work myself up so much analyzing every single thing he does! It consumes my mind!
So this week has been hell and today I go to my vehicle at lunch time and what is on my front seat? A bag of takeout. My favourite meal from my favourite restaurant. Well anybody going through this is gonna analyze that to death! It just doesn't make sense! After the way he has been toward me all week. He is just so up and down.
He is away all weekend for work so I invited some friends over to visit me and the boys. I'm trying to GAL but with three little ones unfortunately it's gonna be at my house. But at least it will occupy my mind for a while.
Originally Posted By: TrentC
(And honestly? I know you are convinced that there is no way your husband could be having an affair but so was I. This forum, and many other groups like it, are filled with people who were sure that their spouses would never cheat—right up until they learn the truth.)
As far as this goes. Yes there are times where I think they may be a possibility I just don't know what to do or find out or what....
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
