You are doing fantastic with the boundaries! Your sense of humor will take you all the way through this. Affirmation, admiration , and respect. AAR. This is what I try and remember when engaging with the Experimenter. He feels like he has failed and I'm not letting someone who doesn't know his past build up more than I can.
I am not going to be a reminder of where he failed, I am going to affirm he once made an awesome choice in me! That I see what is still in there somewhere and I appreciate that person.
We shall all overcome!
Happy Thanksgiving
Thank you Ambi. Can someone please duct tape my mouth shut and tattoo this on my arms? I don't feel like I am doing well at all right now. I keep falling for the traps. I keep getting angry when he is just being "Mr. Cool and Calm going about his normal business of doing things (that are shitty and disrespectful at a base level and anyone else would recognize it)".
Tomorrow is a new day. I wish I could wipe his memory about today.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
