Look what the cat dragged in! (TL)

[tigerlily78]

I think the nicer mlc'ers are hard to figure out. They keep being courteous, but yet not. Like it is all ok what they are doing.

I really think it is all about the respect and admiration. They want to know they have our respect. Remember when we were first married how we treated them? a LOT nicer I'm sure.

It's hard to be gracious when we feel so hurt and they are not respecting our feelings. I still am not there. Working on it. I try to do this by starting small and seeing if it improves anything between H and I. Just a thought.

They sure are. Although I don't feel like mine is even "nice" half the time. It is more like indifferent. How can you be SO indifferent while intentionally breaking someone's heart and shitting on their dreams of the future, and then drop hints that maybe in the future you will feel differently, you might even be feeling a little different already, but NOT enough to stop the hurtful behavior. :P