I don't know what's harder.....but I think I'd rather have my H here to atleast attempt a good time. I didn't even hear from him today...just see that he posted pics w/ his female coworker/possible OW. I think I did pretty well today though...

I am glad you are keeping positive and thinking of ways to take your mind off of things. Reading has been my go to (NON-relationship books of course)...I may have to break out my Wii fornthenrest of the holiday season though.
I hope you're able to end your night on a good note as well.


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope