hello every one who see this post, I have been struggling to understand what is going on with my wife of 25 years. December of 2012 my wife left me, said that she loved me but not as a husband any more. we have been at odds with each other for a little bit, because of the pressure on a job I had out of town. it was a job that was supposed to last six months and turned into three years. anyway after she left she came back after a couple of weeks and we stayed together until the end of august 2013. at which time she left out of the blue again. this time she moved to a different town with a new boy friend and has been gone every since. while we were together for that short time she had two affairs that she admitted too and was making like she was sorry and wanted to move forward, one month later she is gone moved out and living with another man in the town she moved to.that was the end of august 2013 she said at that time she was filing for a divorce and as before she loved me but not as a husband. now as of November 2013 she left that man and is as of now dating two men she meet on craigslist, which seems to be where she finds all the men she has been dating. as far as I know right now by her admission its around six different men since she left. I guess I'm trying to figure out if this is a mid life crisis or a walk away spouse. I have read a lot of posts, but don't have enough experience to call it what it is, so I was hoping I could strike up a conversation with some vets who have put time in to help me get through this. there is more if any one is interested in chiming in.
