Rest of the day was pretty yuck. W basically ignored me and was cold throughout our meal and shopping afterwards. Had the audacity to say "You didn't watch that movie last night, did you?" This was after I told her what I was going to watch as soon as the boys were put to bed. I told her " you are welcome to join me." When I put the boys to bed, I even went by her room and let her know I had put them to bed. Not only did she skip bedtime ritual again, she completely ignored my invite. I expected that part last night, but not to act offended because I went ahead and watched it without her.

I think W's new thing the last couple of days is now just being completely oblivious to things around her. Today, on 3 different occasions, she pipped up and repeated something one if us had said less than a minute after we had said it ourselves. One time S12 and I caught ourselves looking at one another and shaking our heads. Then, she almost backed over a woman in the parking lot and screamed at me because I didn't tell her she was there. Oh yes, I sit in the back if the van when MIL rides with us. W can't stand to let me drive. She feigned motion sickness BS for several years and I drove for my job during the week so I didn't mind her driving on the weekends. Now, anytime I get in the driver's seat to take us anywhere, she asks "Why are you driving?" It's not about my driving, I have a spotless record. It's about her control of everything.


Both 40
T-22 M-18
S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

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