Hi BG they all rewrite history and the LBS is ALWAYS the bad guy, never the WAS.
I even started believing it then read something here from someof the vets and stopped believing my WAS. Maybe some points were true but that he was always perfect and I was always wrong.. that can't be so.
The think and act not react is good advice- hard to do but stops pushing buttons in your H. The hardest thing for me to do is to think through every interaction or conversation.. and plan how I will act and how I will validate and how I will not sound needy. repeating the 37 steps to myself until I almost have them memorised.. Life was easier 3months ago. The questioning myself before every text
