Wife says she wants to leave

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Thanks melissa! Means a lot coming from a woman. It means my efforts to better understand women is paying off.

Cc you asked where to read about alpha and beta, captain and first mate etc...

The authority on this seems to be Athol Kay. He has a blog and a book ane and a forum called 'Married man's sex primer'.

But don't get too carried away with it. I wasted a lot of time with those conecpts and then ass Accuray said, I'm the end I wasn't being true to myself. It is good to know what a fitness test is and how women use them subconciously because right now you don't want to be failing any of them. Most likely yoi have been failing most of them for years and that is why you are here..

Men raised by their moms to be chivalrous, a gentleman etc. We are told that one day we must put our wife on a pedestal. But if you observe men who get all the women you will see they have a completely different approach.

Women look for a strong man who can stand up to them. Much of their little fits are meant to test you for the response. It is a subconcious mechanism women have that is dsigned to weed out the boys from the men.

Most of us men start off passing all the tests. We are young and arrogant and confident. We don't care what women think at that point. We land a nice woman nd get married and is all down hill from then. Her fitness tests increase in quantity and difficulty as the marriagr progresses and you give more and more power to her. Shes on a pedestal, queen of the house. And then you dont hold her interest anymore. You become to easy. And the attraction starts to fade.

The wife keeps on dishing out the tests with more and more intensity, the more you fail the more you get. Respect goes out the windiw and with it goes attraction..

Wife is now ripe for an affair. Welcome to the real world.