SM34 . . . great post, and good advice for cc. And coming from a woman's POV, you are correct. The $3 milkshake means much more than the expensive jewelry.

So . . . what about the man's perspective? I'm guessing oral sex? wink

But seriously - I have no idea what to do about the holidays this year - whether to get H a gift or not, what to get if I do . . . ugggh. Why is everything so complicated now?


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14