I don't have any brilliant suggestions. Most of our cards in the past have been sent specifically from one or other of us, not both.

The few mutual friends that we send cards to already know, so I simply signed the cards from my son and I. Same goes for the family members that get cards. In fact the only person that I send a card to that doesn't know is an ex-boss of mine in the UK. I wrote a simple note inside saying that 2013 hasn't been the greatest year since H decided to move out and go public with his new girlfriend, then switched topics to how my son is getting on and how work is going. Can't remember exactly how I worded it, but he'll get the picture.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks