2TH, don't count down the days. You are just anticipating the hurt. Don't think about what you are going to do or how she is going to act after she moves out. Just focus on the time you have left with her there, and enjoy your time as a family. DB like mad! Do your 180s, follow the 37 rules, make sure that when she moves out, what she remembers about being at home is good stuff.
After she moves, you will have plenty of time to think about where to go from here.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14