25, I appreciate your comments. The stuff I wrote that you consider mind reading, might be just that. I was writing this as it pertains to exposure since that is the topic being discussed. It was not meant to be with regards to my peronal sitch, but more of a general discussion of what MIGHT be happening when family doesn't step in the way us lbs FEEL in our not so strong, not so loving moments.
You have valid points though. I'm not going to deny that. Just that this was kind of supoosed to help the folks who ae wondering why family has done nothing see that perhaps there are unknown reasons, more so than me actually moaning about my mother in law not doing anything .
I was trying to keep my personal story off this thread and focus on expsure and what may or may not be happening in WAS, LBS And family minds.
Ill fill you in on my sitch soon, on ny own thread.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017