I really just wanted to save my marriage and anytime I got a positive response I kept doing what seemed to work. All I did was make them cozier and me unhappier. Plan A really should be discontinued after 2 weeks. Hope a newbie who thinks like I did reads this.

When I would do things like back off, he would use it as further proof I did not want him. It never occurred to him I wanted HIM not him AND her and her kids etc while he lived with her and I was his "friend" he spoke to.

I can't wait til I have a new number. I still sometimes think I will hear from him. With a new number, THAT will stop too and I will finally have peace.

WS moves out 9/11
OWH DD#1 12/11
FR#1 1/12
DD#2 2/12
WS leaves 4/12
WS tries FR#2 6/12
WS/OW move in 7/12
WS leaves OW 9/12
WS back with other OW 12/12
Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13
WS files divorce 8/28/13