How to convince resistant LD wife?

[Ambivalent]

Yeah, men like the feel of silk or satin on a woman! smile

I read that and wanted some input , thanks.

Very subtle? Just wear things that accentuate your feminine features and have your hair well styled. And make it seem like you dress that way for yourself and how you feel about yourself, not for him specifically. Make him wonder a bit.

I have been doing that. He has noticed, and generally compliments now, but you know , he isn't attracted to me and he doesn't know why?

So, as one of many things... at the Thanksgiving dinner with your adult daughters and their father around, bring up a story where you admired what your H did. Make him look good in front of his daughters. Another woman would have a hard time competing with that.

I will say, in the past this is an area that I'd always do. I know men need to feel admired, respected , and yes , that they too are attractive.

I will think about something that puts him in a good light. That is a very good idea and will be a priority and my new homework assignment.

Your first assignment, (flirt and engage) was successful and I will take this homework to heart!

I appreciate your candor and suggestions, as well as your time.

Happy Thanksgiving!