Look what the cat dragged in! (TL)

[Pudmuddle]

I think the nicer mlc'ers are hard to figure out. They keep being courteous, but yet not. Like it is all ok what they are doing.

I really think it is all about the respect and admiration. They want to know they have our respect. Remember when we were first married how we treated them? a LOT nicer I'm sure.

It's hard to be gracious when we feel so hurt and they are not respecting our feelings. I still am not there. Working on it. I try to do this by starting small and seeing if it improves anything between H and I. Just a thought.