Oh why do I always forget to check if he has been drinking. I think I need remedial DB. From niw on I will ALWAYS just assume he has been drinking.

8 days till first alanon meeting. (First one I could get to around work and S) actually Labug mentioned online groups. I will search for that tonight.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15