My s just said "I miss daddy when daddy is in the basement." It broke my heart. I came home to find S walking out of the house looking for his dad. 10 min later H comes up from the basement.

I can't take the hostility. I did not contact him at all today. He called at 6 to see whrn I would be home because he needed to pick up something for his work party tomorrow. I offered to get it because I had some errands to run and was already going to grocery store.

I was running late and called to talk to S. H was practically spitting through the phone asking why I needed to talk to him if I was going to be home soon. I don't care what DB says about holding my tongue but no one is going to tell me I can't talk to my child. I kept it civil and all about S and hung up as soon as I was done talking to S.

When I got home he came up from basement, grabbed his party stuff and headed to his car. S is behind me calling for his dad and asking where he is going. I mentioned before that s has some major anxiety issues. I couldn't just have him walk out and not know what to tell s.

I suggested that if he wants to go wait till after s went to bed. That made him mad. 20 min later he came to tell me he was going out. I said ok. He left then came back to tell me he liked a craft project I did and then left again. I feel like I am living in a mental ward

I will not call. If he doesn't come home it won't be a big deal because S is used to not seeing him in the morning.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15