Update. H stopped all contact with EA. H says!! He has since moved out and says it will not ever work as we can not get along and can't stop fighting. I agree on the fighting. H is coming over for Thanksgiving and spending the night per the kids request. We'll see. Goal is not fighting and relationship talk! H told D13/S13 yesterday when H asked if they would come tonight to stay at his house. D said no this is his home he needs to come home. H said no it's not that easy. Mommy and I can't get alone and I don't live there anymore. D said you need to figure out how to get along . H said I am sorry but your mom and I are not going to stay together forever. Nice!! Which he as told me over the years. but really tell the kids??? Happy Thanksgiving all!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
. H said I am sorry but your mom and I are not going to stay together forever. Nice!! Which he as told me over the years. 
but really tell the kids??? 