I think I can stop this.... can you help me?

[Fitz]

Oh man I walked in the front door tonight and she was immediately on my case. She wanted to know who I was talking to on the phone and what about. I was vague with my answer but she went off on another tirade. This time instead of saying that she was confused about what she wants she came right out and told me that she didn't want this relationship anymore. I just said thanks for finally letting me know. She said that she wants to move but doesn't want to divorce, who knows if we will miss each other and want to get back together. I just responded that if that's what she wants it's fine with me. She started to go on about how she knows I want to stay together and she knows I don't want this. I just told her to stop assuming that she knows what I want, and that her behavior towards me is becoming unacceptable. I told her she was making me numb to this whole situation by the way she's acting.

Man, this is one of those days when I really do want to throw in the towel. I definitely have a WAW on my hands and I can see that there's nothing that I can do to change her mind. I've got to let her go and figure this out on her own. I have to continue to detach and GAL. I was doing so well with that last week but the past few days I have been slipping.

At this point, I don't even know of I want a wife who obviously wants out and doesn't want me back. I think the hardest part of all of this for me right now is losing my best friend