You know this... Detachment and boundaries are for YOU.
Maybe accepting an offer to be with her isn't a bad thing, maybe what happens when your there is what is more important, makes sense?
Know your boundaries and then show her the new you, no expectations, just be you.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
