I welcome your personal opinion, I appreciate hearing the truth.
She doesn't pressure him into anything. They both like that he's unavailable so there is no pressure on them to go into a R which would kill the friendship. They also like that they don't have to commit and they keep their lives separate. He said if he wasn't leaving me to go there it wouldn't be a rebellious act.
And, yes he does like my home and all its comforts, as well as me, as long as it's on his term, like don't talk to me about her.
I am long ready and willing to take the next step. I don't fear anything coming my way. I just can't figure out what that looks like yet.
I want to find the answer. I want to make a move. Maybe I'm just to nice and need to man up. Woah, I sound like Nero.
Happy Thanksgiving to all Dber's and may your day be met with peace in your hears.
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The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!