I think this would be a great "Act as if" scenario. How would you act if you thought she was going to be receptive to you? If you go in thinking it will turn out badly, it probably will.

If she comes, treat her well. Do things you would do for a friend. Don't go out of your way to bend over backwards, but don't ignore her either. Try and have a positive time for her to think about.

Be self-confident. Look and smell your best. Let her take the lead on physical contact. If she goes for a hug, then do it, but don't linger too long. Read over the 37 rules again as a refresher. Don't follow her around the house and such.

Good luck.


H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14