Dawn, Why would he change? He's got the best of both worlds...the ow and you, the family and home. As long as he is living under your roof he has an excuse if the ow begins to pressure him about marrying her.
The only way that cake eating can stop is to take the cake, plate and utensils away from the one trying to eat it. You have to decide what is important to you. Right now, I firmly believe this man is disrespecting you and your family, as well as the marriage...but that is my personal opinion.
Dawn, you are the only one who can determine when to get off the carousel and stop making such delicious cakes for him.
I do hope that you and your family have a nice Thanksgiving. It's the grandbabies first Turkey Day! Take loads of photos.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
