Portia, Please do not take on his load of guilt. As for his phone not working...doesn't he work a job? He could have called and left a message or emailed you. Better yet, snail mail is still in existence and he could have written you a note and advised you of his move and that his was out of service. Nope, don't take this on...I don't believe it.
Oh, he expected you to jump thru hoops and definitely roll out the red carpet. In his foggy little mind, he expects you to be right where he left you and you should be jumping for joy, falling all over yourself because he's finally contacted. Sorry dude, it's a two way street and Portia has needed some emotional and moral support w/some heavy personal things going on in her life.
Nope, he's still wanting you to build him up and make him feel great. The pedestal was knocked over a long time ago. He has to earn your loyalty and love, as well as trust. He's got to prove himself. Portia, you are such a prize.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
