Thanks Beatrice, Wishing and Mirage.

Beatrice, it is nice to hear from you. Haven't seen any posts from you (atleast on my thread) in a while.

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It is not the case that 'most' MLCers stay home, some do, some of the time. A few stay all of the time. Others, like your x and mine run hard and fast.


True. I just read so many threads here and some of the people still have contact or some type of communication. I just feel like I was never even given a chance or hope. Mine left, started "dating" the OM that she had been talking to, got engaged and is now married. Do I wish mine would have stayed in the home? Not sure, but it would have been nice to have a chance to atleast work on things. I told her from the beginning that there was no way we could work on things with OM in the picture. She was addicted to him and wouldn't quit talking to him. She couldn't quit talking to him. She was/is a mess. I guess what I am saying is there was no see-sawing back and forth with her. She just jumped the gun and boom that was it. Will it come back to bite her someday? I think it will, but maybe it won't.

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Would you really want her around you in her current state of mind?


Probably not. She is a looney-tune.

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I'm a firm believer that richness is inside ourselves you just need to find it.


I believe this too Mirage. Thank you for posting. As I said in an earlier post, I truly believe that she has lost so much more than me, she just may not realize it yet.

News:

I got a job and I start it on Monday. It is not what I wanted, but it is something. I am now a cab driver. Ug......

Like I said, it isn't what I wanted, but hopefully it will pay enough to get me by until I can find something else.

Three years ago:

Nationally recognized and award winning disc jockey.

Today:

Cabbie

Boy have things changed.....

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13