I'll let you know when I eventually get over there. I actually realized earlier that joining this forum is a 180 for me - a few years I would never have even considered doing it. Same with FB - on my main account it's only people that I am very acquainted with that I've friended on there, and now look at me - I'm part of the FB DB group as well as this forum.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks