I'm thinking you misunderstood what Pud meant by MLC forum - she's on the MLC section of this site. I haven't gotten around to registering on the other one yet.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks