Nov. 25: "XW called and asked if I wanted to write my paper up there at her house"
There certainly appears to be a trend, but it could be in response to her "hitting bottom." I am adamant that I want her to be 100% sure she is ready to try again before we do try again.
Am I reading to much into this? Or am I missing the obvious and should take the lead?
I have held firm that since it was her decision to divorce, it needed to be her decision to let me know if she wanted to try. That goes against my instincts (especially given the trend), but putting the ball in her court seems to make sense, and it also creates an aura of mystery about me and my own feelings.
Lots of typing/sharing today. Thanks for reading/helping me think things through.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.