In what universe...? part four

[TryingToDo180]

MH, I'm not going to do either, you lot will just have to come on earlier lol
Had the mediation meeting this afternoon, we sorted it all out but like I said the tutor took their side. She said that one of the girls will say it as it is and I take things to heart. The other girl said I really upset her the other day and I've not even apologised to her. I said I did but she said she didn't hear me. Anyway, it's all sorted now I'll just stay away from them and try and keep myself to myself.
My son had another work coach today who is a lot more proactive than the last one. He took my son over to the leisure centre today to sort out some activities for my son to do whilst I'm at college which the other lady didn't do. This was above and beyond his call of duty and I was really pleased about this Maybe he's more sympathetic to special needs or he's had more experience.
Pud, I didn't know you were posting over at the MLC forum, I'll go and look you up in a bit Have you been posting over there as well NQ?
A bit of news from H, nothing too major. He rang me and I didn't hear the phone. I rang him back and he just said that he'll drop my son's clothes off later and put them in the hallway. Weird eh? He could've just said that by text, lol.
Right well I'll just go and catch up with the other threads now

[Not Quitting]

Sorry about the mediation not helping out much, but it's definitely good news about your son's work coach.

I pop by MLC thread to read and sometimes post on Pud's thread but I'm staying in Newcomers for now.

My H has called once in a while when a text would have done. Maybe they actually need to hear our voices once in a while LOL - not that it makes any difference in their mind set of course.

[TryingToDo180]

I thought that as well NQ about hearing our voices but not mak8ing much difference anyway, lol. What are the names that you and Pud go by on MLC? I just tried to search for pud, but can't find her.

[Not Quitting]

I'm thinking you misunderstood what Pud meant by MLC forum - she's on the MLC section of this site. I haven't gotten around to registering on the other one yet.

[TryingToDo180]

Oh ok lol. I thought you meant the other site

[Not Quitting]

I'll let you know when I eventually get over there. I actually realized earlier that joining this forum is a 180 for me - a few years I would never have even considered doing it. Same with FB - on my main account it's only people that I am very acquainted with that I've friended on there, and now look at me - I'm part of the FB DB group as well as this forum.

[TryingToDo180]

That goes the same for me as well A pat on the back for both of us

[TryingToDo180]

I've got a bit of dilemma. I want to get on with writing my Christmas cards but some of my friends and relatives still don't know. I was going to put a letter in, but I'm stuck as to how to word it. I've tried several times and failed miserably.
They don't know because my H has left before and the first and second time I broadcasted it. But this time I've been fairly quiet about it and I've not posted anything about it on FB like some do!
Has anyone got any suggestions on what I can put?

[Fight4MyWife]

Just a suggestion, but not necessarily the correct thing to do.

If you just put them from you, then they would probably reach the conclusion themselves without any explanation needed. Otherwise it might prompt them to ask and then you can explain.

[Not Quitting]

I don't have any brilliant suggestions. Most of our cards in the past have been sent specifically from one or other of us, not both.

The few mutual friends that we send cards to already know, so I simply signed the cards from my son and I. Same goes for the family members that get cards. In fact the only person that I send a card to that doesn't know is an ex-boss of mine in the UK. I wrote a simple note inside saying that 2013 hasn't been the greatest year since H decided to move out and go public with his new girlfriend, then switched topics to how my son is getting on and how work is going. Can't remember exactly how I worded it, but he'll get the picture.