Tad, you are seing what you want to see here. It is not the case that 'most' MLCers stay home, some do, some of the time. A few stay all of the time. Others, like your x and mine run hard and fast.
Is URworthy with her spouse, no, nor Lois, nor Golfmom nor Job. Just for starters.
Those who stay around are often hurtful and disrespectful of their spouses, openly texting or skyping with OP. Making mean remarks about the spouse, which is demoralising to put it mildly.
Look at Punkin - didn't see her spouse for dust . . . . It is how the MLC takes them.