It's only fear that makes you run

[Whiterose]

True. No dog bites for me today if I can help it

[Whiterose]

My lawyer was under the impression H was giving me child support. Ummmmm no. She's calling his lawyer. Everything else waits until court. I said he can't keep crying poor me while I borrow money and my parents bring groceries so his children eat. And apparently under the new laws any money I borrow tosimtaib the family home is joint debt and he owes me 50%

[job]

WR,
Your h should heed the warning "be careful what you ask for". He's going to be one hot butter cup when his lawyer advises him that he owes you child support as well as 50% of home issues. Did you also remind your lawyer about the check he owes you that he got by mistake?

Now, it's going to get very interesting...but that's okay. You can handle anything that comes your way. He's going to find that you can't play out in the street and run away from home and expect the responsibilities not to catch up. Boy, he's going to be really crying the blues now!

Hang on to your seat, buckle up tightly because when he gets notification from his lawyer...he's going to be some kind of hot.

[Portia]

WR,

You are sounding very strong. Don't worry about the dips in energy. They don't feel good but they seem to get shorter and shorter.

AJ and job have given you some great advice.

I was actually having (er...still am!) taking the highroad. Either I swing to the F-him and I will tell him nothing or I want to spill my guts and stroke his ego. So hard to sit on the fence. But I am also finding on the fence is a good place for me right now.

Your lawyer's call will spark a storm. He may look at your text as antagonistic, so leave it be. And make sure that you have a safe number to call in case he goes a little screwy. Unfortunately, it happens especially when there are issues of support. The pressure valve just seems to go - worse, I'll bet for those in MLC.

You hang in there!

[Whiterose]

So Job should we start calling him Melted Butter Cup? Wonder how he's going to spin this to the boys and his lawyer? Honestly, I'm nervous about what's coming next......but he cannot expect my parents to keep bringing me groceries to feed OUR children as I work like a dog. I didn't bring up the outstanding cheque but I did tell her what he said to S19 about it being my fault we're going to court and that I was done being thrown under the bus. I said he needs to stop crying poor me be airs in poor too and am supporting OUR children 100%. She also brought up S14's schooling as he had also sworn an affidavit saying he would pay that too.

Portia the swinging I recognize. Holy moly I swing hard!! I have not emailed messaged him at all about iTunes and I'm glad, so that my lawyer has contacted his lawyer, that I haven't stirred that up as well. I don't think he'll take physical action because I wouldn't put it pass my family to make sure that never happen again. I would be worried for HIS safety. He knows that......I think.

Thank you ladies!!!

[Whiterose]

Was messaging with my girlfriend in Finland, she's the one we bought the honda from that h traded for the truck while still owing her money.

H finally made a payment towards the car, last week, and he messaged her yesterday asking if she's not talking to him now that he made a payment. She said no she's hurt her shoulder and on meds. She asked him why he unfriended her on fb. He said because he had unfriended a whole bunch of people he no longer talks to but didn't realize she was one of them. (Bu!![censored] was her response to me) so he's sent her a new friend request. She hasn't accepted yet.

No messages to me about money or he lawyer.

[job]

WR,
Please don't hold your breath on the money. The only way that I see you getting it is when his lawyer starts putting the pressure on him thru the court system.

Please try not to get yourself back into the middle of his drama. You've got a lot going on and I would really love to see you and your sons enjoy the holidays.

[Whiterose]

No no. I don't expect to see money until court I was just wondering if he'd send me a nasty test or something. Waiting to see what his lawyers response will be too. I'm not messaging him directly about anything right now.

I thought it was funny what he said to my girlfriend though.......I'm guessing he's pretty lonely.

[job]

I don't think it's being lonely, but more like paranoid. He probably thinks because the two of you are going through a divorce and that maybe your GF wasn't speaking to him. He also wanted acknowledgement of his effort to send her money. Remember, they want acknowledgement, affirmation and validation...he's seeking some of that from her as well right now. He did a good deed and he wants her to thank him for being so kind as to send her some money.

[Whiterose]

Happy thanksgiving to all my American friends here! Blessings to you all and may your meal be yummy and the table sirrounded with friends and family.

Went to the wedding awards last night. Didn't win but got a lot of compliments on my dress and drank a little too much champagne. Took lots of fun photos and was in bed by 11:30 to be at work this morning.

H sent me a text this morning. 7:40am! Requesting I pack his sweaters and ties so he can pick them up when he picks up the boys for movie night. Very polite. Hi W. Thank you I haven't responded yet and nothing from his lawyer in regards to the child support. I am utterly shocked he wants the sweaters. They're beautiful and many my parents brought him from Italy but he has always HATED them. HATE!! Actually, I was going to give them away but they were expensive and I didn't have the heart. S19 is now using most of H's ties so not sure how ill deal with that.