You're amazingly tolerant of your H's MLC, which is a good thing in some ways, like keeping you from doing irrational things. But on the other hand, I'm reminded of something I saw on a Dr. Phil show one time. The husband was in an MLC with a new girlfriend. His wife tried to understand and fix the problem, but he just continued with his MLC. The wife got angry and found a boyfriend of her own. When the husband found out he wanted his wife back and his MLC suddenly disappeared completely! Dr. Phil joked about it on the air when he said something like, "So, your midlife crises suddenly disappeared, just like that!" Yep, as soon as he found out his wife was also getting it on the side, that changed EVERYTHING. MLC over! Ha ha.
