I think I can stop this.... can you help me?

[Fitz]

Thanks. Last night when she got home from work she asked if I had spoken to my family about Thanksgiving. I told her that I had, and I had told them that I was coming with my son and that I wasnt sure if W was coming with me. I told her that she is still more than welcome to come.

I don't know if I shot myself in the foot with what I said next. She asked me if I mentioned anything to my mother about the problems we were having. I told her yeah I had mentioned a little bit. She asked what my mother had said, and I told her that my mother told me I had to do what makes me happy, and she just asked me one simple question, Could I ever love my wife again.

W asked what I answered, I was very vague to her and I just said that was a question that I guess I'd really have to think about. She went off on a mini-tangent, saying that love wasn't the problem. Of course she still loved me, if she didnt then this wouldn't be so hard for her. It's hard either way, trying to fix the marriage, or leaving because she still loves me.

This morning when I got to work, like a fool I checked the phone bill online, and I noticed that she had called a divorce lawyer for the first time this morning. uh-oh