Hi Labug,

I get that taking time to figure me out. The first time around i did not date and it was at the point where i started to get out that she came back, worried that i might move on. The difference between then and now is that before she still kept in contact, i would see her once in a while but now unless she needs something (which has only been twice in 4 months) it is dead. I was sending her a text or card once in a while. She would politely respond to text but other than the two times she has not initiated contact. It has been two weeks of silence.

I dont know if i continue to initiate contact once in a while or just completely let go.
As far as the dating thing it has helped me feel better about myself. Guess i have some thinking to do about that...


M-45
W-44
2D - 11&13
2SS - 11&17
Married 10/10/10
Bomb 3/5/12
Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12
Back together 9/12
Seperated 6/13
Divorce Final 11/13/13