Hi

I am new to the forum and figured I would share my situation, I have been married to my wife for 5+ years now and she is wanting to seperate. We have been having issues for awhile due to i found out she cheated on me 2 years ago. We worked through those issues and now another issue came up about 5 weeks ago. I will not go into detail about it because it was something i did to her and I am ashamed of what I did, and no i did not cheat on her. With this issue that happened she is not able to get past it and said that she is not able to be intimate with me. She does not like it when i hug, attempt to kiss or even try to be close to her. She tells me that she needs to seperate and see if she can get over what happened.

Now she has said that right now she is not looking for a D and is going to PC, which i am also going to PC. We are going to try at least 1 MC to give it a go and see if we can fix our M.


Married - 5+ years
Me - 2nd M Her - 4th M
Me - 44 Her - 40
Wife Moved/Moving out 11/30/13