My H generally reaches out to his friends at Thanksgiving and sends notes thanking them for being a part of his life, etc.
I just received the following email from my H:
W,
I wanted to write and say Thank You for doing an amazing job raising our boys. I know our lives are in a tailspin right now because of me and I know that I have hurt you deeply, but in the spirit of Thanksgiving I wanted to say Thank You for all that you do. If our boys were old enough and understood, they would say a big thank you to you, too…
Honestly, this is the man that I have known for 15 years. The man that cares deeply about his friends and family. The complete opposite of the man that I have know for the past two years. I miss this man terribly. I need to take a bit to figure out how to respond.